committing certain specific sins, such as sinful acts. words, deeds and thoughts, but at the
same time we continue to feel and be aware of our profound sinfulness. The most perfect
man is the one who, precisely as he is a man, sincerely feels that he is a great sinner. An
example of this was St. Seraphim of Sarov.
The proof of authenticity of the spiritual condition of a father confessor is, that while he
is very strict with himself, he is very lenient with others and does not use the canons of
the Church like cannons against them.
Two factors are involved in man's salvation: the grace of God and the will of man. Both
must work together, if salvation is to be attained.
Spiritual Father who has been appointed by the Church and has received the authority to
forgive sins, and receives from this Spiritual Father the remission of his sins and is
reconciled with the Deity, against Whom he sinned.
contrition, tears, aversion towards sin, and love of the good.
hen you go to your spiritual father for confession, do not bring yourself as an accuser of
other people, saying, "he said this," and "so-and-so said that". . . but speak about your
own doings, so that you may obtain forgiveness.
You are, I am sure, aware that for you penitence is now no longer limited to disclosing
your sins to your confessor, but that you must now bear your sins in mind always, until
your heart nearly breaks with their ugly load; and would break, were it not for your firm
faith in the mercy of our Lord."
My child, do you want to crush the head of the serpent? Openly reveal your thoughts in